3471love @3471love@polyamory.social
Wondering if this is for me. Fearing my wife is not as open as I'd like her to be. Seeking friendly advice. Also, French guy, mid-forties.
My wife is not really interested in sex, and *says* she wouldn't mind if I "slept around to meet my needs". But that is not what I'm after. I don't want secrets, and I don't want "just sex". I want her involved (even if not sexually), and I want love, and intimacy, and trust. Any thoughts ?
(btw I'm a French guy, 45)
#presentation
Thé avec une copine hier, on se donne des nouvelles des enfants: "C'est super, je peux géolocaliser mon ado tout le temps, avec cette appli, je suis vraiment rassurée. Et comme son père a la même, je sais toujours où il est, je peux l'appeler quand il sort du bureau pour prendre le pain. Tu devrais faire pareil". J'ai juste pu répondre que c'était une image de l'enfer pour moi, calmement. Même pas eu le courage de lui dire le fond de ma pensée.
Maybe you can help :)
https://polyamory.social/@3471love/100873436674601148
My wife is not really interested in sex, and *says* she wouldn't mind if I "slept around to meet my needs". But that is not what I'm after. I don't want secrets, and I don't want "just sex". I want her involved (even if not sexually), and I want love, and intimacy, and trust. Any thoughts ?
(btw I'm a French guy, 45)
#presentation
Not much happening here, where are you ?
Wondering if this is for me. Fearing my wife is not as open as I'd like her to be. Seeking friendly advice. Also, French guy, mid-forties.
