So... Been away for a while.
Dating scene in NYC for me is border line non existent. Might be too selective but I don't think so.
I changed my definition of poly to non-monogamy. I feel there are too many questions once I do meet someone poly, and identifying myself and my relationship AND what I'm looking for each time is nuts (all three can be different). Decided I'm probably leaning toward relationship anarchist. Feels like ot makes sense.
Nice to have community 😊
And to add on to my previous statement, the obvious caveat is that labels matter less as long as you're never misleading people. But beyond that, we all have to figure out what feels most comfortable to us - which is, of course, easier said than done.
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