Man. I’ve gotten better at avoiding people looking for validation through but it’s still a struggle. Like, I don’t want to fuck with someone who doesn’t have confidence in their own sexiness.

Positive reinforcement is the most effective way to create change.

I realized that I’ve never actually had any type of healthy relationship modeled irl to me before. My currently sole dating partner is the first relationship I’ve ever had where I could trust _and_ rely on someone else.

Tfw thinking about how capitalism isolates people and then commodifies relationships to sell it back to us. 😐


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